Tuesday 24 September 2013

【I want you. and only you..】

女 : 我 不 高 、身 材 不 好
男 : 我 要 的 不 是 模 特 儿

女 : 我 长 得 不 漂 亮
男 : 我 要 的 不 是 仙 女

女 : 我 不 会 煮 饭
男 : 我 要 的 不 是 厨 师

女 : 我 学 历 很 低
男 : 我 要 的 不 是 才 女

女 : 我 的 脾 气 不 好
男 : 我 要 的 不 是 侍 女

女 : 那...... 你 要 的 是 什 么 呀 ?
男: 我 要 的 只 是 妳 、妳 懂 吗 ? ♥


There are 7,180,000,000 people on Earth and I only want you.
The more people I meet, the more I realize that IT'S ONLY YOU I want to be with.
I want you today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, and the rest of my life.
I will wait for you because honestly I don't want anyone else.
You're the only fish in the sea for me.
I really want to be with you right now.
It only gets better when you're around.
I want to be with you until the Sun falls from the sky.
If only you saw what I can see, you'll understand why I want you so desperately.
There are only two times that I want to be with you. NOW and FOREVER.

Monday 23 September 2013

【“是好の就分享”之“白龍王生前九大金句”】

●很多人来到这里都问我︰
我的事业好不好?家庭好不好?孩子好不好?姻缘好不好?
我只是回答一句︰你的脾气好不好?一切都会有答案。

●拜神求平安,回家却和父母顶嘴,要怎样得到平安?

●父母才是真神,对父母比神好一点,一切便顺顺利利。

●心好有好日-这也是白龙王的座右铭。

●读书读得高就好,脾气高就很不好。

●神不会骗人,只有人骗神。死人不会骂人,只有人骂死人。

●无论是什么人,坏人、好人、有钱人、穷人,来到这里都要排队。

●拜神不要迷信。

●好树生好火,家中夫妻和谐,孩子才会学习去迁就人家。



人的一生都在学做人学习做人是一辈子的事,没有办法毕业的。

人生不管是士农工商、各种人等, 只要学习就有进步,今天要跟大家分享需要学习的事。

第一、「学习认错」 人常常不肯认错,凡事都说是别人的错, 认为自己才是对的,​​其实不认错就是一个错。认错的对象可以是父母、朋友、社会大众、佛祖, 甚至向儿女或是对我不好的人认错, 自己不但不会少了什么,反而显得你有度量。学习认错是美好的,是一个大修行。

第二、「学习柔和」 人的牙齿是硬的,舌头是软的,到了人生的最后, 牙齿都掉光了,舌头却不会掉,所以要柔软, 人生才能长久,硬反而吃亏。心地柔软了,是修行最大的进步。一般形容执着的人说,你的心、你的性格很冷、很硬,像钢铁一样。如果我们像禅门说的调息、调身、调心, 慢慢调伏像野马、像猴子的这颗心,令它柔软, 人生才能活得更快乐、更长久。

第三、「学习生忍」 这世间就是忍一口气,风平浪静,退一步海阔天空; 忍,万事都能消除。忍就是会处理、会化解, 用智慧、能力让大事化小、小事化无。各位要生活、要生存、要生命,有了忍, 可以认清世间的好坏、善恶、是非,甚至接受它。

第四、「学习沟通」 缺乏沟通,就会产生是非、争执与误会。现在中国大陆、香港和台湾, 两岸三地最重要的就是沟通, 相互了解、相互体谅、相互帮助, 大家都是龙兄虎弟,互相争执、不沟通怎么能和平呢?

第五、「学习放下」 人生像一只皮箱,需要用的时候提起, 不用的时就把它放下,应放下的时候,却不放下, 就像拖着沉重的行李,无法自在。人生的岁月有限,认错、尊重、包容才能让人接受,放下才自在啊!

第六、「学习感动」 我们看到人家得好处,要欢喜; 看到好人好事,要能感动。感动是一个爱心、菩萨心、菩提心, 在我几十年的岁月里,有许多事情、语言感动了我,​​ 所以我也很努力的想办法让别人感动。

第七、「学习生存」 为了生存,我要维护身体健康, 身体健康不但对自己有利,也让朋友、家人放心, 所以也是孝亲的行为。

Sunday 1 September 2013

【Dear stress, let's break up!】

A-Z, say bye bye to stress~


1. Always take time for yourself, at least 30 minutes per day.

2. Be aware of your own stress meter: Know when to step back and cool down.

3. Concentrate on controlling your own situation, without controlling everybody else.

4. Daily exercise will burn off the stress chemicals.

5. Eat lots of fresh fruit, veggies, bread and water, give your body the best for it to perform at its best.

6. Forgive others, don't hold grudges and be tolerant -- not everyone is as capable as you.

7. Gain perspective on things, how important is the issue?

8. Hugs and laughter: Have fun and don't be afraid to share your feelings with others.

9. Identify stressors and plan to deal with them better next time.

10. Judge your own performance realistically; don't set goals out of your own reach.

11. Keep a positive attitude, your outlook will influence outcomes and the way others treat you.

12. Limit alcohol, drugs and other stimulants, they affect your perception and behaviour.

13. Manage money well, seek advice and save at least 10 per cent of what you earn.

14. No is a word you need to learn to use without feeling guilty.

15. Outdoor activities by yourself, or with friends and family, can be a great way to relax.

16. Play your favourite music rather than watching television.

17. Quit smoking: It is stressing your body daily, not to mention killing you too.

18. Relationships: Nurture and enjoy them, learn to listen more and talk less.

19. Sleep well, with a firm mattress and a supportive pillow; don't overheat yourself and allow plenty of ventilation.

20. Treat yourself once a week with a massage, dinner out, the movies: Moderation is the key.

21. Understand things from the other person's point of view.

22. Verify information from the source before exploding.

23. Worry less, it really does not get things completed better or quicker.

24. Xpress: Make a regular retreat to your favourite space, make holidays part of your yearly plan and budget.

25. Yearly goal setting: Plan what you want to achieve based on your priorities in your career, relationships, and so on.

26. Zest for life: Each day is a gift, smile and be thankful that you are a part of the bigger picture.